Virtual Lovemaking – Avoiding The Dangers

Meeting your husband online and living happily ever after is actually not as far-fetched as it was before. In point of fact, online dating nowadays is so widely accepted that dating app on your phone is commonplace. The danger, however, is that a lot of women, in general, are letting their guards down online. Some are there because they may be emotionally vulnerable and this just exacerbates the problem. The dangers are real and not everyone says who they really are until it is too late. Here are a few common-sense tips for you to be a little bit safer when you go out with a person you meet online.

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    It is a good idea to talk to them BEFORE going out on an actual date with them. When we say talk we mean to call them up and talk. This would give you an idea of how they really are as real people a voice call will reveal so much more than an online chat. Among all the limited things you can do online, a voice call will actually give you the most “feeling” about the person on the other end of the line. To get to have a feeling if they are telling the truth, ask away,  go right ahead and ask them awkward questions, the way they would respond would speak volumes about their character.

    After you had that “talk” with them, do a little background check. Almost everyone nowadays would have a presence online or at the very least someone mentioned their names. Social media is a treasure trove of information for those that know how to look. You would be surprised at the amount of information available online about a certain person.

   Now that you know how a person may look for information about anyone, you can take some precautions. Leave as small a digital footprint as possible and avoid revealing too much personal data as possible.

   When you did those and you are actually going out on a date, make sure you tell your friends, and make sure the person you are dating knows that you two are going out. If he is planning to do something untoward, knowing that other people know that you are with him may be enough of a deterrent. Furthermore, and although YOUR common sense should be telling you this, go easy on alcohol consumption. Be on your toes on the first few dates. There is no sense being concerned for your safety and then passing out in the car because you are too drunk.